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Marisa Victus's avatar

Great post!

I’ve adopted this mindset in multiple areas (like cold showers, lifting and other exercise, intermittent fasting, my early morning routine, and in my work, art, music, creative writing, etc.) and I totally agree. It’s an empowering mindset when you put it into practice.

The best part is when you realize what was once a struggle has become part of your regular routine. It just fuels you, gives you more energy, and propels you to expand your comfort zone further. It’s great motivation to improve, especially in areas that generate fear or anxiety. I hope to use this process to get over anything that’s holding me back. Won’t be easy, but it will be rewarding.

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Harshan's avatar

Super insightful. The 10 intentional stress challenges in particular is a great toolkit to have. We can always refer back to it and measure our resilience on multiple fronts. Thanks, Kyle!

1. Physical Exertion - My go-to is running/jogging. A slow 90-min jog outdoors is almost meditative. And reveals the mind-body interplay as well. The first 30 mins are easy. And then comes the strange aches and pains, the mind whispers to "stop, the body is in pain" it says. But if you persist, the next 30 minutes those niggles disappear. The last 30 is meditative.

Lesson - Some part of the mind is extremely deceptive. Do not yield to it and keep going.

2. Deliberate Heat/Cold Exposure - Cold showers, almost always. But the weather here is humid. So cold showers are refreshing!😊

3. Time restricted eating. Yes. Eating within 12 hour window.

4. DeVice Fasting - I have given up a vice. Its still a struggle but I intend to stay sober. The benefits are incredible.

5. Learn a new skill - Does going back to reading and creative writing count? I used to write sporadically. Aiming to write daily.

6. Self-reflection. No intentional work here. I write short poems/stories that weave some of my reflections in it. But not daily. Don't know...I instinctively rebel against intentional reflective journaling. Instead I read posts/notes of the online community (such as this one) and reply with my reflections on ones I connect with.

7. Fear Exposure. No work done on this front so far.

8. Contemplate Death. Again no intentional work here.

9. Apologize and Forgive. This is an important area. The one I struggle with. Not the apologizing but forgiving. Never understood this. If I can easily apologize for my bad behavior and endeavor to act with kindness, why is this not reciprocated? Rude and unkind responses baffle me and it is not easy to forgive.

10. Give to others. Yes. Clothes, books, my time. But still lot of scope for expansion. Working on a few ideas here.

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