What does it take to raise resilient kids in a world full of pressure, milestones, and constant comparison?
You may know Kyle from his powerful episode on Mindset Lessons from the Field, but this time, we focused on parenting.
And wow... it hit home.
Kyle shared how resilience went from a “collateral duty” in his military role to a personal mission the day he became a dad. Suddenly, he wasn’t just responsible for himself—he had little eyes watching. And that’s where the truth really landed:
Our kids learn resilience by watching us live it.
They don’t just hear our words—they mirror our actions.
He opened up about how parenting changed from child one to child three (with number four on the way!). What stuck with me most was his reminder that every child is different. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to raising confident, emotionally strong kids.
The most powerful thing we can offer?
Presence, intention, and acceptance.
We also touched on how hard it can be to let kids fall—especially when you love them so deeply. I shared how I’m helping raise my nephew and how tough it is not to swoop in when he struggles and right now it is with speech. But I know: growth lives in the struggle.
Kyle said something that really stayed with me:
If we lean too far into protecting them, we might accidentally prevent them from building the strength they need.
That reminder—paired with a story I shared from Nick Lavery’s episode—was everything. Nick’s parents didn’t take adversity away. They gave advice… then sent him back into the world to face it. That’s how you build real resilience.
If you’re a parent, educator, or involved aunt/uncle like me, this is for you.
Let them fall. Let them rise. Be there when they do.
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